http://neena200647.rediffiland.com/Diary of neena joshien-us Some people may think that the content of the speech is more important than the manner in which we speak.....the person is more important than the ornaments.I don't think so. Yes.content IS important but the manner in which you express yourself is as important as the content.
If you say a single hurtful thing to a person ;that person may forget a hundred nice things you did for him and will remember the hurtful word only.
Similarly discuss unpleasant things in a polite manner & without raising your voice....you 've said what you wanted to say & you won't end up spoiling a relationship .

The emotions are abstract---they don't have any form when they are in our minds.When we want someone to know them,they take the form of words or guestures.So if you are angry,sad,frustrated ; tell yourself first--'do I really want this person to know how I feel or do I simply want to hurt his feelings/ insult him?' You'll know what to do.]]>Fri, 22 Dec 2006 12:16:48 +0530http://neena200647.rediffiland.com/blogs/2006/12/22/Untitled.html
but this doesn't make him a bookish man.see the things he has done in his life-----learning to play african drums,finding out how to open combination locks---not for any unethical reason,but as an intellectual challenge.

i really admire the book.....]]>Sun, 10 Dec 2006 11:59:53 +0530http://neena200647.rediffiland.com/blogs/2006/12/10/Untitled.html
No matter how hard u try to remain cool & happy it becomes very difficult at times to maintain yr cool.
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